How to stay sober...
and still have an amazing social life
Despite what you've always been told
it's actually possible to still have a great social life without having a single drink. 

I've been doing it for six years. 
I'm about to show you how.
It was fall of 2012.

The holidays were just about to start.

I can make it to January, I thought;
Just hold on a little bit longer.

I'll get my life together after the holidays.

That is not how it happened. Not even close.

It was 4am on November 21st, 2012.

I had been up partying for 4 days and nights.

I was fear stricken.
My anxiety skyrocketing.
I was overwhelmed with a feeling of impending doom.

I had movers coming in 4 hours.

I hadn't done any packing and I had spent all my money on drugs and alcohol.

I wasn’t going to make it until 8am much less January 1st.

I ended up in the psych ward for Thanksgiving, a detox center for my birthday on December 5th and a rehab center in Michigan for Christmas and NYE. 
The decision ended up being made for me, not by me.

The picture on the left is my last, of many, mugshot.

The picture on the right is me today, sober, happy, healthy, and thriving.

I, literally, couldn’t go on one more day, one more hour, one more minute. 

All those plans I had of waiting to make the change... out the window.

It was time, right now.
I knew deep down I needed to be make the change.

I was just pushing it off.
Pushing off what I knew had to be done.

So that decision was made for me not by me.

I’m offering you a chance to make that decision on your own, for yourself. 

Try 31 days without drinking or doing any drugs and just see what happens.

See how much better you feel.

How your life improves.

How your relationships get better and more meaningful.

Don't wait one more weekend, or one more day, one last night out.

Don't wait until the decision is made for you, not by you. 

The time is now, make the decision.
How I Stopped Drinking
Without Killing My Social Life
On November 21st, 2012 when my drinking career abruptly ended and I had to change my life I was determined to keep my social life intact.

 After-all, I was a 38-year old, single guy, moving to a brand new city... a brand new coast, for that matter. I knew one person.

I knew if I was going to be successful and happy, it was imperative that I have, not just a social life, but a kick-ass social life.

I love going out to watch college football on Saturdays and the NFL on Sundays.
I wanted to keep going to concerts. 
To keep going to the street festivals that I love so much. 
There were going to be first dates and work parties.

On top of all this, we as humans are a social species, we love our tribes, we're pack animals.
Having connections and social interaction is not a luxury, it's necessary to our survival and our well-being.
From day 1 when I got out of rehab and landed in San Francisco 
I got to work on my new sober life; with a social life.

I went through some ups and downs learning how to live sober, and to socialize sober.
I quickly developed strategies that worked to 
thrive sober; personally, professionally and socially.

I was the sober with a social life life guinea pig so you wouldn't have to be.

The methods I developed are right here in this program so you don't have to miss a beat.

You can stop drinking for 31-days, or for good, and still have a kick-ass social life.

I'm living proof.
Hard Truth #1: You Can't Keep Pushing It Off
 All you're doing by pushing it off is... well, pushing it off.

All you're doing by saying "I'll start Monday", or "After my birthday or July 4th"
is delaying the inevitable until it never happens and
you’re doing the same, self-destructive,
things for weeks, months or years.

When it came time to face my demons and stop drinking and doing copious
amounts of cocaine the day was 11/21/12.

It was almost the end of the year. 

Thanksgiving was a few days away.
My birthday was a few weeks down the road.
Christmas and New Year's Eve were right after that.

I thought about waiting, continuing down the road, pushing it off until January; that was actually my plan.

That’s not how it happened though and it’s why it’s so important to make a change now.
Hard Truth #2 - You're Playing With Fire
If drinking is proving to be a problem for you and your plan is to push it off until January 1st, or Monday, or even tomorrow, you're playing with fire. 

Tonight when you drink could be the night that you end up with a DUI.
It could mean the last straw in your relationship.
The night that you ruin your career.
Or the night that you die.
Hard Truth #3 - You're Really Not Having Fun Anymore Anyway
Drinking has stopped being fun for you.

You know it and I know it.

Every time you pick up a drink you're thinking to yourself that
you have no idea how this night will end up.

 You could end up with the girl of your dreams or, more likely,
you could end up living a nightmare.

The truth is that you don't have control of what happens
when you get a few, or 10, drinks in you.

Is that really fun? To have that thought in that back of your head all night.

I didn't think so.
I Know What You're Thinking
My social life is over without alcohol.
I won’t be able to do all the things that you love to do.
How am I going to go on dates sober?
What about football Sunday?
But my favorite band is coming to town next week.

Not to worry, I got you.
You can still do all the things that you love to do.

I have lived and developed a program designed
to keep you living your life to the fullest.
The Truth About Being Sober And Having A Kick Ass Social Life
🔥 Make Real, Lasting Memories and Connections
🔥 Not Waking Up With Regret, Shame, Embarrassment, and Fear
🔥 More Energy All The Time, Especially In The Morning
🔥 More Productivity At Work and In Your Personal Life (make more $$$$$ and have better workouts)
🔥 Have More and Better Sex
🔥 Chicks Dig Sober Dudes.  Because Science.
🔥 Lose Excess Body Fat (look awesome naked)
🔥 Get In Better Shape (perform better in all areas of your life)
The 31 Day Sober With A Social Life Challenge™
I will be your sober sherpa for 31 days.

I will guide you through the steps and strategies I have used to maintain my sobriety and my social life for 6 years.

Learn how to handle any social situation with confidence, ease and without have a single drop of alcohol.
What You Get Inside
31 Day Sober With A Social Life Challenge™
✅ Three emails per week around mindset, common questions, and strategies to handle life sober
✅ Access to the private Facebook Group; 31 Days of Sober With A Social Life
✅ 15-minute check-in call to answer any questions that have come up for you
✅ The Telos Lifestyle Visualization Method™ that has helped hundreds of people continue to live their life to the fullest without alcohol
✅ 3 easy to do, 30-minute, full body workouts and nutrition tips.
$1,529 Value
Normally $349
Now Only $69
I Guarantee That If You Do Everything I Have Outlined In This Program You Will Stay Sober For 31 Days and Still Have The Amazing Social Life You Want
When I first got sober I quickly realized that sticking to the plan I had set out was the key to success.

When I was accountable to myself and I took pride in what I was doing I was actually able to stay sober and have the life I wanted unlike the times before when I would just give in after 7 or 14 days.

I promise, that if you commit and take pride in what you're doing for the next 31 days you will have success.

Don't take my word for it, see what these 3 guys below had to say.
The Telos Lifestyle 31 Day Sober With A Social Life Challenge™  is for you if:

✅ You Want to lose 10-15 pounds in the next 31 days
✅ Your friends, girlfriend, wife, family members are asking questions about your drinking
✅ You're questioning yourself about bad "life choices" around drinking
✅ You've had more than few "bad nights" drinking recently
✅ You just want to take a break from drinking to detox and reset your system
✅ You want to stop drinking but don't want to sacrifice your social life
✅ You're tired of relying on "beer muscles and "liquid courage" to talk to girls
The Telos Lifestyle 31 Day Sober With A Social Life Challenge™ is not for you if:
❎ You're perfectly happy with carrying around that beer gut
❎ You just have zero desire to stop or control your drinking
❎ Alcohol has never caused any problems in your life
❎ You're already perfectly fine going out without drinking
❎ You have tons of energy in the mornings after having "a few" drinks the night before
Frequently Asked Questions
Will this really work for me?
👍 Short answer is yes, absolutely.  This program works for everyone that follows it and commits to 31 days of sobriety.

My friends drink a lot, what will I tell them?
👍 The truth is they really don't care if you're drinking or not, as long as they have their drink in hand. We go over this in-depth in the program but the best answer is to just tell them that you're tasking a break to reset.

What about the ___________ (fill in the blank) party?
👍 Super Bowl party, 40th birthday party, bachelor weekend, your favorite concerts, and street festivals; they're all the same and you can enjoy them all sober with the techniques in my program.

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